Behavioural development and promoting the behaviour you want for a feline companion

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Kittens do not stay young for long and the correct care in the early weeks and months can help them behave in away that is best suited to you and your home, leading to a lasting relationship.

Your kitten learns what is normal and safe during a very sensitive period of development that occurs between twoand eight weeks of age – the so-called ‘socialisation period’. During this time, kittens’ brains and sensory systems are still developing, and the things they see, hear, touch, smell and taste affect how this development occurs. This allows young cats to quickly understand what is normal about their world and what they should avoid.

Socialisation and getting used to the home environment

The greater the variety of positive experiences kittens have between two and eight weeks of age – such as different sights, sounds and smells – the more likely they are to be able to adapt to whatever life throws at them in the future.

Kittens which have not been exposed to positive, new  experiences during this sensitive period are more likely to bescared of novelty later in life. Cats born without exposure to people cannot usually be tamed and will remain scared of people throughout their lives, becoming feral cats.

This is why it is important for kittens to be socialised before eight weeks of age. Examples of socialisation include meeting different types of people from babies to adults, being gently touched and handled, and getting used to hearing different sounds – such as the noise of the washing machine and vacuum cleaner – while ensuring the kittens find these experiences enjoyable rather than threatening.

Kittens exposed to unrelated, non-aggressive cats while they are very young are more likely to be able to cope with thepresence of other cats as adults. Likewise, kittens are more likely to form positive associations with dogs if they have positive interactions with dogs during the socialisation period.

However, most kittens do not stay in the home in which they are born and are acquired by their owners when they are aged eight weeks or over. This means they are approaching the end of this ‘window of opportunity’ to learn what is normal about their world. When choosing a kitten, try to find out how well socialised it is, so that you can choose a kitten most likely to adapt to your home.

When kittens over eight weeks of age are introduced to new experiences, it is important to go at a slow pace. Providingthem with a quiet, dedicated room and allowing them to explore at their own pace will help them to build confidenceand reduce the risk of anxiety and behavioural problems. Patience at the start will reap rewards later.

Encouraging appropriate play

A common reason for cats showing aggression towards people is due to learning at a young age that this is a good way of interacting. During normal development, kittens start to play with each other at four weeks old, as a way of practisinghunting. Between five to six weeks of age, kittens will show hiding and searching behaviours that are either directed at
another kitten or an object in their environment.

Direct object play starts a little later and is particularly noticeable between seven and eight weeks of age. To start with, kittens play with all sorts of objects, but as they develop, mothers provide opportunities to direct their kittens’ behaviour towards appropriate prey items. Object play helps kittens to develop their balance and eye-paw co-ordination.
Social play, including chasing behaviour, continues until it peaks at approximately 12 to 14 weeks.


In the home environment, people often make the mistake of playing with kittens with their fingers or by moving their feet around under the duvet. Although this may be fun with a young kitten, it can start to direct play or predatory behaviours towards the owner, which may be painful as the kitten becomes an adult cat.

Often this type of predatory aggression appears as ‘ambushing’ where the cat lies in wait, ready to attack as soon as someone walks by. To avoid this, don’t encourage your kitten to play with your hair, fingers or toes. If they try to pounce on them, keep perfectly still, so there is nothing exciting for them to chase.

Cats showing this type of behaviour may be showing boredom. They should be provided with suitable toys to attack as this provides great mental stimulation and physical exercise. Time should be spent playing with the kitten or cat but the games should be distant from the body – for example, using ‘fishing rod’ type toys and ping pong balls. Rotate the toys often to keep the games interesting. Remember never to leave your kitten or cat unsupervised with toys which might beshredded or eaten, or cause entanglement, and check toys regularly for signs of wear, replacing when appropriate.

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